Breakups... (Continued)

Breakups can sometimes be messy and at other times be inevitable, but one thing certain about most breakups, is that they cause pain if not numbness followed by ache even if the end of relationship was to be expected. It is usually hard to pick up the pieces of a broken heart (note the word hard) but with time, all the pieces if worked on with patience can fall into place. Even if you have initiated the move, it does not make the stab of the breakup ache any less, just knowing he simply would not be there for a chat, a rushed cup of tea or the occasional sexy arguments it’s a tribulation on its own.  After the breakup, you may experience roller coaster of emotions which include pain, anger and sadness and this is normal but it does not mean that you should wallow in them.

No one ever said that relationships are perfect for if they were, then  we will all be living in fairytales. If you get into a romantic relationship, then expect that it will come with the good and the bad but if you believe that the relationship is of great value to the both of you then it is important to work more on the good than focusing on the bad.

Sometimes people throw in the towel in a valuable and significant relationship because they had tended to put a focal point on each other’s flaws. Listen, no one is perfect and to tell  you the truth, the ‘perfect’ you will definitely drive most people to insanity, so just be you and try to enjoy your relationship as best as you can. Then again, we are not saying show off your repellent behaviour such as picking your nose and say that’s you being yourself – hey, some things you have to keep them between your eyes and brain. Gross!